Black Friday: When CEO’s Dream
Black Friday (henceforth referred to as BF) has been
an institution in this country for as long as I can remember. In short, it’s is
a termed used by retailers to refer to the fact that their businesses go into
the “black” meaning they are actually making money. For many retailers, it’s
the holiest day of the year. A day CEO’s lay on their sold gold pillows
dreaming, safe in the knowledge that
their yearend bonuses are secure…yes, let us sleep easy.
There used to be rules for BF. It was on Friday, the
day after Thanksgiving; not Thanksgiving Day, not Wednesday, not Midnight…it
was Friday…period. People spent a few hours on Friday taking advantage of deals
and getting ramped up for the Christmas shopping season. Maybe have some lunch
with a good friend. There were no long lines of people that had been camped out
for up to twelve hours before a store opened to buy televisions, tablets, and
computers.
In time, retailers figured out that people had
become so entrenched in a consumer culture that they figured out ways to make
them crazy over things they didn’t really need and could find at different
times of the year if they were savvy and paying attention. People had slid into
a mentality that their loved ones, particularly their small children, absolutely
had to have the newest and greatest item made in China for the low low price of
$99.95. I remember Teddy Ruxpin and Cabbage Patch Dolls. People actually fist
fighting in stores over the scant supply of these dolls that ended up in landfills
five minutes after Johnny and Suzy grew tired of them. Just so you know, kids
could care less about such things. Their attention spans are short and if you
give them sticks and string just for giggles, you would be amazed what they can
do with them.
We are seeing Christmas come earlier and earlier with
each passing year. We have become so spoiled as a culture, we think we have the
right to mindlessly consume and discard. It’s the new normal. In doing so we
have watched our jobs go overeas, our economy go in the toilet, and we have
become a debtor nation. It’s a long way from The Declaration of Independence.
For me, I choose to push away from the table. I will not be participating in
the gluttonous consumer orgy that is Black Friday. My children will have a low end
Christmas consisting of a few items. I will teach them that family is what
matters and what they should be paying attention to and that they should be
thankful what they have. We will have out feasts and if you’re one of the
fortunate, you will receive one inexpensive gift from me. If you’re really
fortunate, you will get a call from me on Christmas Day wishing you a Merry
Christmas and a Happy New Year.
I agree for the most part, however I do venture out for BF. It's either on or right around my birthday and i always spend it with a dear friend I don't get to see much. We get up early (but not crazy or wait in line early) and have our huge coffees and my homemade pumpkin bread. We leisurely shop and catch up, just having a great time together. I do find some great deals on needed items (clothes for kids) but since joe and I also do a low key Xmas for the boys I don't go overboard. We would rather save our money for our annual after Xmas mountain trip which is so much better than gifts!
ReplyDeletethe part about "maybe have lunch with a good friend" was for you. Its been around a long time and it wasn't always evil (at least from my perspective)...this is more about the overall materialization of the holidays (particularly Christmas) and not for people out there that just enjoy the day...have fun and if you find any fuzzy bunny slippers...great gift idea for me.
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